No more Mr. Nice Guy

It’s true, financial advisors are sweethearts. You got into this business because you sincerely want to help folks succeed financially, meet their goals and live their dreams. This is a great quality in a financial advisor!

However, it’s not always such a great quality in a human resources manager. Time after time, advisors call me because they have someone in a position they know is just not quite right, they can’t see a future for them with the firm or they just generally irritate the advisor. We talk and talk about the employee and then, after listening to a litany of excuses as to why the employee is still there, I say “Sounds like it might be time for a change”. The shock in their voice is palpable. How could I suggest such a thing… what kind of heartless person could I be?

Maybe I am a little bit of a mercenary when it comes to this but my clients pay me to look out for what is best for them. Now, don’t get me wrong. Those of you who have read any of my postings relating to hiring, training, etc. know I am a huge advocate for taking great care of the RIGHT employees. However, if you have someone who you are just keeping because you’re either too nice or loyal to make a change or because you’re too big a wimp, you are not doing anyone any favors.

Hanging on to someone like this is actually very selfish. If you know you have someone who you do not see in the long term picture of the firm, you have an obligation to let them know. They need to be either searching for a new position or a new career.

 If you find yourself in this position, have a plan for transitioning this person out and bringing in a new, better fit. Don’t just throw them out.. .talk to them about it. Be honest. The majority of the time you will find that while their feelings are going to be hurt (it’s only natural), they will appreciate your honest approach to helping them move on.

Call me if you’d like to discuss this further.